Remembering Chris – My words at Drexel on 17 May 2012

On 17  May 2012, Drexel University held “Memorial Day Primer and Tribute to Drexel’s Fallen.   In preparation for Memorial Day, the Drexel community filled boxes for our troops, wrote some letters to them also, and then had several people talk about remembering those who have given their all for our freedoms.  President Fry paid a tribute to Chris with words about Chris and who he was while at Drexel.  He then offered me an opportunity to remember Chris and I chose these words:

“Thank you all for coming today to dedicate some time to those who give and have given their lives to protecting the freedoms we enjoy here in America.  This dedication to Chris honors him for his daily desire to doing the right thing.  It is easy as a parent to believe your child is extraordinary.  Maybe it is grades, maybe it is sports.  But rarely do we see gentle leadership.

In so many ways, Chris was ordinary, that is until he saw a wrong to be righted or a team that needed to be led.  But he led by doing.  He led by coaching.  He worked hard to earn trust and respect and he knew that without integrity, he could easily lose all he had gained.

Chris’ times at Drexel and in the NROTC joint unit over at Penn were times of vast growth for him.  He learned how “to learn”, “to lead”, and “to love.”

To learn – Commerce and Engineering was the perfect fit and he found himself willing to be challenged to succeed.   I only learned recently about him being the first Commerce and Engineering student to do a Senior Design Project.

To Lead – NROTC was a key factor.  Being in charge of discipline one semester, he set up historic 5a.m. runs through Philly.  Each person disciplined was given a subject to talk on for 5 minutes about how this site was important to American Freedom.

To Love – he met Amanda here.  As a father, you know your son and you know when your son changes.  Amanda completed him and made him a better man.

As you sit here today, remember that there are still many men and women out there protecting our freedoms and working to provide the potential for freedom for oppressed people.  As you walk by a monument, a graveyard, a flag, or someone in uniform, stop and be thankful, silently  to yourself or outlound to them.  Without them protecting our freedom to pursue happiness we would not be the America we are.  Thank you for honoring Chris here today.

Custodite et protegite nos – Chris, watch over and protect us.”


Author: John

Business Executive with Marketing, Product, Sales and General Management Experience. Currently, consulting in areas of strategic marketing, pricing excellence, key account management, and market driven innovation. Love to read, ride my bike, swim, compete in tri's, pick/drink wine, meet with friends, live life.

One thought on “Remembering Chris – My words at Drexel on 17 May 2012”

  1. Hi John,

    I heard from an old classmate of yours today, Mike Deak. He told me about your Branchburg connection, and when he did, I realized we also knew your mother, Eva Jane — she was our kids’ preschool teacher at North Branch Reformed Church. I am the editor of the Branchburg News, the community paper. I would like to run a short item about your son Christopher, but I would like to make sure he info is correct. It would be of interest to people who know your mom and you.

    I need a few pieces of information to localize the news item — when did you leave Branchburg? Where do you live now? Did Chris ever live here? Was your dad Milt on the Branchburg school board? Most everything else I can pick up from news reports, but the only way I made a Branchburg connection was because of Mike Deak.

    I’m so sorry about what happened. God bless Chris and God bless you and your family.


    Bill Haduch email:


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